I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. Overall she's just manipulative and controlling, and I doubt all libras are like her. At my request of clarification he said "oh well he doesn't like certain things, like when I play a bit with him, he gets furious". I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. Beware of libra men. Librans want peace and negative ones want it at any price, even if it means sneaking around, denying, controlling, and drama. I've been in two long relationships with Aquarius and Gemini , they are supposed to be the best compatible signs with libra but not in my case , they care too much about their parents and careers more than the woman they love. I think it's true that Libras like things balanced and harmonious. I am a libra and this doesn't describe me. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. I have begun meeting new people like this "dont be fooled, I am not what it seems". They cannot be in one relationship and as soon they breakup with you, you will find out they are dating someone else with no compassion of your broken heart. She is a great charmer, but to only win someone over enough to get info from them, info that she can use against others eventually. she is to this day. Im happy i read this because hubpages looks like an awesome website. My experience with a Libran is usually very superficial and passive. This is not true ! I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. Sometimes I think they overdo it when a shitstorm is about to occur and they purposely control conversations to avoid ill feeling. Mostly because most things I read about Libras don't feel like they connect with me. RELATED: The Best & Worst Personality Traits Of The Capricorn Zodiac Sign. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. The Native American totem of the Libran time frame is the Raven. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. Yes I can be dark by being extremely lazy and indecisive but everyone has got a dark side. Yeah I do see these traits in myself I just find it happens when I'm being too nice or something and I always seem to attract the wrong people. Im working on how to tell which person I should be friends with and people just taking advantage of me. As you know im a libra and have a pretty hard time saying no so i find people can see that and then after a bit take advantage of that and sometimes just use me and then after a while it all just builds up into sadnesss and anger and its just ahhhh idk how to get rid of it lol oh yeah and i smile and laugh at my own misery alot idk why but i find it funny. I immediately had her pegged as a boyfriend snatcher, took charge and used my partner's phone to phone her back (not knowing her star sign). I don't know about everyone else but i was so stumped at myself this morning i resorted to blaming my sign. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. Why Do Libras Hide Their Feelings? The reason they hide their feelings is because they don't want to burden the other person with their emotions. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. And nope im a Loyal libra. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. 04/13Libra If you or someone you know is suffering from depression, you are not alone. My dark side is usually regret which I've been told is the cancer of life. This may cause her to re-evaluate the goals and ideologies that she maintains. which was when i was very young. Sometimes physicall abuse they dont care if your 3 or 95but when they know if anyone else finds out they can get in trouble they know how make them shut up before they even think about it. Libras are very good at hiding their emotions. She invited my best friend over to the house for a business presentation but did admit it was no good purpose. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. When I started to find my feet and grow back into my own skin and started embracing life (I started sewing classes and then attending Couture workshops) she didn't want to know. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! The first Libra guy became interested in me from a far by noticing me on Facebook when I commented on a mutual college friend's photo (which included Mr. Libra) and I said (you guys look like a GQ magazine cover). Albeit we have a dark side to us that is one a Libra should NEVER fully embrace (Because once we go darkside..the path of pain and destruction from us will be relentless) we also have a light side that shines brighter than any other in this world. This just says a lot. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. Lolz, I think your Sun might be among those Scorpio stars. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. When Libras get sad they feel like their heart is breaking. It has been two years and I am still hurting because I havent fully invested in myself. I dont know. Hello, i am a libra woman Oct 16th, so kinda right there in the middle and i wont lie and say i wasnt offended by this article bc yes! Be Mysterious. So maybe he's still a paedophile and that can't be changed. I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. Peace. Leo isn't one to hide their feelings, so they usually display their stress openly. They often lack patience anyway, so being sad can make them easier to enrage. Libras aren't always recognized for being sensitive. My life was fairly quiet and normal until Mr. Libra came into my life. I'm super proud to be one. They will never make her needs for materialistic stability happy, nor her emotional driven self to be happy. The Libra 2 guy I knew literally created a conflict between a Sagitarrius girl I did NOT know -- she was sending me DM's telling me how much she HATED me and I was thinking, I don't know this girl and she doesn't know me except for seeing photos of me with Mr. Libra on Facebook. Now he lives in Japan and if I ask him to get me anything from there he would send me by post, or any info about computers, or hints on how to solve computer problems etc. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. I have zero desires to be a negative libra but honestly don't how to turn it around or even if I can. So sometimes, they might hide their emotions to maintain their image. When I get angry I yell and scream but if it gets worst I start getting physical and it's scary. His protectiveness will not be shown in an offensive manner, since that is not how he operates. Damn straight go right out of my life. They're fairly intolerable to sadness and dissociate from their feelings when possible. TRY ME!!! Men with a Libra Sun or Moon are masters of the silent treatment and passive aggression. This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. Aquarius can sometimes hide their emotions to save themselves from a multitude of heartbreak and sadness, but when depression hits, those around them can really see a difference in their behavior. She is an extremely toxic person. And I know there's a dark side but I'm not a dark person. In order to understand these triggers - today we present - why the signs get sad! They are experts at reading people and can usually tell when someone is not ready to hear what they have to say. Yes I am extremely lazy bit I am actually thinking of ways to understand some concepts an etc. I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. Toxic Libra will always make you feel like you were the one in the wrong. When they do good they want that pat on the back. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. I feel like a pawn on a chess board to her. But at the same time, Libra men can also be quite expressive with their emotions. They're divorced now. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. Every single thing you confided in the libra will thrown back at you as a weapon to hurt you. Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: e.g. Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. Be careful, because she carries a grudge like no other, so get on her good side or you will definitely regret it later. I hate quarrels. (1) his sister's name is completely different than mine. They are the cause to my misery. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. My step mom was a Libra very selfish insecure woman who made sure my life was a living hell growing up. You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! Please take time to read a few of her books to understand what she was really all about. 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